Monday, February 24, 2020

Semester 8 Chapter I: Upside Down


Yo, so I waited for so long with this one, Im actually starting the new semester with it. And when they say, life works in mysterious ways, that shits for real. So where Im at with life now. My Shanghai life is basically terminated. Will probably drop by eventually for a bit at some point to pick up my stuff and deal with some uni things, but my apartment is gone (my deposit too), coronavirus is apparently gonna be everywhere in no time, Im unemployed, and yet to mold everything back together into something sustainable. As I write these lines, Im sitting in a super nice hotel room in Malaysia, still traveling with my gf, got new Royce in my headphones (what a nice album!)... I mean fuck... How youre supposed to not love this. But yeah, my heart does go out to China, to all the coronavirus victims, to all to scientists and doctors on the frontline... It just makes you think how fragile shit is.... Lately Ive been thinking that theres so many things in the world people consider important going absolutely under my radar, and so many other things that are being consistently ignored that just make me wanna go to war or something. Sometimes its like a comedy really... The fact that Adidas and Apple press Chinese contractors to get people back to work asap, cause they are losing profit, is pure beauty. Read that shit again and let that really sink in. What could have been a moment of reflection and recalibration turned out to be another manifestation of double-standards, hypocrisy, and money over everything attitude. Good job!




As for this blog. I like it, Im gonna keep it running, and for the time being, Im keeping the name too. Not sure if Im gonna keep the format (or the name) but it is here to stay. If you got any suggestions, hit me up. And thanks for still being there, clicking my posts, sending your feedbacks here and there. No idea what makes you stay but you are that push that has made me do this for all these past years. So lets make it couple more.


Aight, fuck all of that. Im gonna run through whatever happened since the Bali trip. I cant go day by day, partly cause theres just too many, and partly cause my memory is just not that good. But listen, I did my Padi Advanced certification with Nitrox add-on on Gili T, so I can do way more now. Turns out Im not really that bad with deep dives and I just happen to love diving more and more every time Im down there. We left Gili T on 16th and cant lie it felt a bit sentimental. Our house was our home for nearly two months and quite some memories were made over there. 


We spent last 4 days of Indonesia in Kuta Lombok, mostly diving again. I arranged pretty comfy transfer (private speed boat literally just us and crew and a car) and we got a hostel like 100 meters from the dive shop we found over there. Nothing fancy but perfectly okay. Kuta really made an impression on me. Before that, we stopped there only briefly during our road trip (to pick up swim shorts for me) and for some reason if felt super touristy and busy. The reality is different. There is one relatively international road with Western restaurants and shops, but most of the town is very chilled, local and peaceful. Almost made us think whether it wouldnt have been a better pick for a base. Real nice. The diving was also amazing. First day, we did 2 dives around Kuta Beach, second day, we did 3 at Belongas Bay (that area is a legend!), and the third day, we did another 2 by Pink Beach. My only problem is that the rented wet suit was not warm enough, and especially at Belongas, I was getting real cold, like trembling kinda cold the worst fucking feeling when diving, trust me. Also, my regulator wasnt the best.




The real fucked up part was my health tho. The first night, I got a bit of fever, and even though it was getting better, I just didnt feel 100% over there. Stuff was still enjoyable, I did all the dives but I wasnt fully there. And that getting cold part led me to spend too much time on the sun which resulted in a burned face something Im dealing with till now. Overall, not the luckiest in that sense. Still a great experience and a lovely end of our whole Indonesian adventure.


21st early morning, we left the hotel and went to Lombok airport to catch a flight to Kuala Lumpur. Everything went well, car arranged by my gfs work was waiting for us here, and comfortably took us to a hotel in a city center. The real fun part started here. Its the virus time so hotels take temperatures. Now, I was on 38 and some change which is not really the best. And picture this couple of days feeling a bit shit, hours on a travel with no sleep, burned face, oh and did I mention injured foot that made me limp? Just a cherry on top.... At that point I really felt my body is starting collapse. We took a tea around the corner after which the lovely people let us into the room to let me rest and sleep. Feeling grateful, I did just that. For the next two days, it was nothing but bed, Marvel movies and recovery. It did the trick. But at that moment... When the guy got back with 38 on that meter.... I felt the weakest in ages.




Malaysia has been chilled though. Nice breakfasts, movies.... We hit a mall to check the new Harley Quinn movie yesterday (not bad) and have a cigarillo under Petronas Towers. Today we dealt with the gfs Thai visa, went for a lunch, did a bit of a picnic in a park. Nice and slow. At this point I just feel happy everything is back to normal just waiting for the rest of my face to peel off. Adventure continues, everything is good on my end. Sending love to everybody out there putting any kind of positivity to the world. Theres no such thing as a small amount of it. It is not for granted and it should not be treated as such. One!


Highlights:
  • Indonesia. Oh my god...
  • Sleep. This past week I rediscovered the importance of sleep for real.
  • Marvel movies. We did it. We watched them all.

Thursday, February 6, 2020

Semester 7 Chapter XXII: Bali Traffic & Reunions


Okay, back on this thing. Took a while simply because of the fact I was away from my laptop for a bit, busy driving around Bali and collecting memories. However, couple of hours ago, we arrived back to our Gili T base so its that time again. So just sit back, get some snacks, and get ready for another stream of thoughts from your favorite blogger. Were back in the building!


Last week, we spent couple more days on Gili T, mostly just chilling and taking things super easy. Felt pretty good after the whole Lombok trip. I had a chance to spend some more quality father-son time with the old-timer... Im talking beers, cigars, good food. The good life. We did some shopping over here for the nephew/grandson, spent a lotta time in our pool, and even met up with one of my favorite people on Sunday. Shes my Shanghai fam and she arrived on Sunday for one night with couple of her friends. We hung around the island, had a dinner at the night market, and Monday morning, all of us went for a dive. Two guys in the group were already certified so we did the earlier dive with them, and the following one as the whole gang after the girls finished their pool tests. Visibility was good, turtles and fish were all over the place, but most importantly, it was all of us down there. Talk about great time.


After some GIli chilling, we packed our things, and Thursday morning, we were on our way to Padang Bai. Funny thing is, if you wanna go from Gilis to Bali, you have to invest 250k into a ticket that includes bus transport all the way to Denpasar it is impossible to buy the ticket just to Padang Bai - trust me, I tried. Anyways, we arrived around noon, I managed to get us a scooter and right after that, a real fucking heavy storm started. And Im talking that kinda rain that does not even allow you considering driving or walking in it. And it just wouldnt stop. Eventually, we got stuck in a café in the town for the rest of the day and spent a night in a hostel right next to it. Traveling sometimes comes with such situations. It wasnt too bad tho. The guys made me couple of vegan pancakes, my dad got himself a solid amount of beers, we were good.


Friday morning, the weather was beautiful again. I arranged another scooter (both of them 60k a day) and we took it to the Mount Batur, specifically to the Batur Lake right by it. After a bit of highway, we started climbing up. Unlike in Lombok, lotta roads in Bali are quite busy. Which makes driving a bit more challenging and the experience a bit less pleasant. Nevertheless, I still consider getting around with your scooter by far the best option when youre in the area. We arrived to our accommodation early in the afternoon, dropped our things and took a walk up the mountain. We made it pretty close to the top and enjoyed some amazing views at the lake. After we made it back down, we drove to a village nearby for some dinner. We wrapped the day up with some rice wine arranged by our host. First, he brought us arak - some super strong homemade liquor, which we kindly declined, and then we got our favorite. It tastes different in Bali a bit less sweet but still real tasty.




Saturday morning, we drove back to Padang Bai to return my dads scooter. We got some lunch while at it, and then me and my gf took it to Canggu on our bike, while my dad hopped on a bus to meet us later. That drive was insane. I was speeding through the highway but when we made it to the city, the real bullshit started. Im talking traffic beyond crazy. Those 70km took us like 1,5 hours but thats only cause I was basically breaking every traffic rule imaginable. Which is actually not so bad all I did was following the flow rules dont mean much on the roads over here. We made it to our hostel and waited for our dad. The poor guy did the same route by bus and it took over 4 hours you get the idea. I picked him up later in the afternoon and we did another nightmarish ride through the city. In the evening, all of us met up with the gang, that we dived with couple of days back on Gilis, and my Montenegrin sisters, who arrived earlier in the week. Everybodys leaving Shanghai due to this coronavirus bullshit. Interesting times over there no idea how my futures gonna shape up at this point. Anyways, it felt super nice to catch up with the fam. We got some beers by the beach, walked to this skate bar to get some more drinks while watching skaters doing some crazy shit in the pool, and ended up in this club named Volt. Drinking, dancing, having a great time. Also, the first time me and my gf hit a club like that. We still have couple of firsts to do.


We made it home around 4am, and two hours later, we woke up to say bye to my dad. Again, Im extremely happy he visited and the fact he enjoyed all the adventures and chilling makes me feel warm inside. I see you pops! And we got more of this in the barrel for the upcoming years, trust me... After he jumped into a cab, we rested for a bit more and went for a breakfast. Canggu feels like a Western colony for real. Restaurants, gyms, clothes stores, white people. Not the best for getting authentic Indonesian experience, but pretty cool to get the sense of the city again. I went for some great vegan burger and milkshake (aka the afterparty finest), and after that we jumped back on the scooter and took it all the way up north to Lovina Beach. I was kinda hoping for cute calm mountain roads, but that motherfucker was something else. Basically main road the whole time, spiced up by some rain. Fortunately, it did not get as bad as in Padang Bai, so we made it to the other side of the island, and later in afternoon, we checked into a place close to the beach. While drinking our welcome drinks (ice coffee), we got approached by a guy who offered us shit to do for the next day. We heard him out, and he actually came up with some solid, reasonably priced plan. We paid a million each, and went to grab a dinner. Theres huge dolphin statue on the beach (dolphin is the citys symbol), under which we got into a conversation with a local. We had a nice chat, after which he showed us some necklaces he makes. He was not pushy at all, explained how he makes them, the vibe was really nice. Im not the kinda guy who collects shit like that but it just felt right. I mean, initially, my gf just got some for her and her mom and sis, but we ended up taking one more for me. Its a nice one, and I really enjoy wearing it (it symbolizes peace too!). Wonder if its the kinda thing that would not work outside of Indonesia, or if Im gonna hippie up my style long-term. We had a delicious dinner in a Warung nearby. Im talking some serious dinner date with wine and all. Lovina is tourism ready, but way less crowded than the southern part of the island, everything is a bit slower and chilled over there overall, a nice change after the previous day.


Monday morning, we woke up before 6am to catch our first activity. We went to the beach and jumped into a boat. It was the two of us, some Japanese guy and a guy driving the boat. We took it further to the sea for some dolphins watching. There were quite a lot of small boats loaded with tourists gathered up in the area for the same exact reason. And yeah, there were a lot of fucking dolphins. Never seen any before real beautiful. The whole thing took around 2 hours which felt just about right, and after that, we got ourselves some breakfast in the hotel. We followed the breakfast with a ride to the dive school around the corner to test our gear. Thats right, as a part of the package purchased the day before, we got 2 dives at Menjangan Island, which is located in a natural park in the norh-west part of Bali. For about 60km, I followed the schools van on a highway, going 90km/h for the most part. After our arrival, my driving skills got complimented by the vans driver its nice to get some acknowledgement, as I feel I was killing it the whole time. After that, we hopped on another boat and to the island we went. And boy oh boy, those dives were awesome. Corals all alive, visibility beautiful, life everywhere. The only downside was, that our dive master (Im guessing late 50s) didnt give a shit about safety. I mean, Im only open water and I was shocked how little he cared about all the basic explanations and procedures I consider essential. Anyways, our first dive took about 45 minutes before we got into a pretty strong current and since I didnt manage to get under it, and after a while simply lost power to fight it, I got shot up to the surface. Quite an ascend from like 15 meters almost all the way up there. Then, instead of doing 3 minutes safety stop at five meters, the guy just pulled me up to make it even worse. His explanation: his BCD was already inflated. That also meant we left my gf behind. Just like that. Fuck everything. We got some lunch on the island with some deer just roaming around the island is actually nicknamed The Deer Island for that reason. They are not afraid of people, theyre just chilling. Our second dive was also great an hour by a reef, we didnt go too deep which allowed sunrays to light up the whole experience; breathtaking. Later in the afternoon, we were back on our scooter riding by the shore down south. We made a stop in a town of Negara and decided to spend a night over there. After we found a place, we went to buy some water, and found a supermarket with some arcades on the second floor all super local. We spent a good part of the evening playing all kinds of games, eventually bringing home a lunchbox as a prize.
 

Tuesday morning marked another test of my scooter driving skills. We had to be in Denpasar at noon to make it for my gf laser appointment and that basically meant going as fast as possible. Overtaking everything on the highway and zigzagging through the city madness again. We made it tho, and while my gf was undergoing her thing, I went for a really nice lunch to a Thai place around the corner (shout out Happycow!) and even managed to bought us some cigarillos our first pack of local ones. Later on, we made it back to Canggu to our place for the night, took a very needed nap, and went to a Pilates studio nearby. My gf is heavily into that thing and since I havent tried it before, she brought me along for a private couple class. Didnt know much about it but it is a pretty elegant exercise. An hour of that gives you a feeling comparable to the one you get at gym. And all of my workout junkies know what the fuck Im talking about. Was missing that feeling in my life. After the class, we drove around the city, stop by for a dinner at this neat local place, and ended up in a mall for a movie. Instead of getting regular 50k tickets, we invested double for a premium experience. After chilling in a fancy lounge, we watched the new Bad Boys in super comfortable foldable chairs with blankets. That shit really improves the whole thing by a ton. On top of that, the movie was not bad at all one of the best action movies Ive seen in a long time. We made it back to our spot around midnight, and I really felt like we milked all the city shit to the fullest. After weeks of this island life, it was refreshing.



Wednesday morning, we got some seitan steaks at this Sloth vegan place and then drove up north to Ubud to meet up with my Montenegrin sisters for some rafting. Early in the afternoon, we were sitting in a raft the four of us, some random couple and the guy in charge. The river was pretty muddy and the guy was pretty annoying with his screaming, singing and jokes, but the ride was cool. Water was rather cold, there were lizards chilling on the rocks, the forest was green. The biggest downside was the amount of trash by the shores. They should really do something about it it is pretty bad. Wouldnt do this for the second time but it was an interesting experience. We had a meal and some coffee right after, and then we split up. The girls went back to Canggu, whereas we proceeded to our last stop in Bali Sideman. We arrived to a lovely looking village in the evening, got some rice wine (on the house), some dinner, and chilled by our room talking and smoking. It was all beautiful the area is right by mountains and its all green. The only annoying thing was insect all over the place. Got way better when we shut down most of lights. However, it wasnt too bad and I was just happy we decided to stay outside of Pandang Bai.


After 8am this morning, we hopped back on the bike and had a lovely drive back down to the port. We had some coffee, returned the scooter, bought a ticket back (bargained it to 150k), had an argument with an asshole whose feelings got hurt when we declined his ticket offer, and before 9:30, we were sitting on a boat. Sea was calm, weather was beautiful, and before 11:00, we were back home. We did some groceries shopping and before the noon, we were by our pool chilling and feeling happy we made it all. What a fucking trip!


So here we go. Im still sitting by the pool listening to new Wayne, sun is shining, all is great. Gonna keep you in the loop, watch out for new blogs and vlogs! Sending some love to all my people in China and salute to all my people in general. One!

Highlights:
  • Got scammed by an exchange stand fucker. No idea how he did it but I lost over 100 USD. Was in rush, the guy was giving me small notes, never happened to me before a valuable life lesson.
  • The whole Bali trip.
  • My people, my dad, my gf all of it!